I have an Entity, which have list of others entities (childs)

i'm using lazy=true for list mapping. All fine, but when i added new child to list, whole collection loaded by hibernate.

It's perfomance problem now, because the ammount of data is rather large.

If i use inverse=true for list, hibernate doesn't load collection and generate only one SQL INSERT , but there are no Index for this element.

Actually i don't need indexed collection, i want lazy collection, where i can add element (at the end of collection only) with one SQL INSERT.

I wonder can i achive this with Hibernate?

I have no solution for you, but maybe the following liks help you:

Inside explanation of inverse=true http://www.hibernate.org/155.html
14.1. Understanding Collection performance http://www.hibernate.org/hib_docs/reference/en/html/performance.html#performance-collections