You know we're peeved with people not helping themselves and asking to be driven step after step. Rude content is not excusable from a people asking for help for free.
A quote from the ask for help page I 100% agree.
Don't insult Hibernate or the people who worked hard to develop it. You want an answer to your problem, right? Insulting people is a really bad way to get it. People will deliberately not answer your question because they would prefer that you just go away; they don't want to encourage you to come back and insult them again.
You are asking a favor. No-one has any responsibility to help you. You have not paid any money to use Hibernate. Nevertheless, the level of "free" support provided is far beyond what you could expect from most commercial software vendors. Even though the support is provided for free, it is certainly not free to the person providing it. They are taking time away from their own busy life to help you. Most of the time they take great pleasure from this - but only when they are treated with respect.
I'm a customer of several commercial supports, they do not help me as much as I can see on this forum.