Thanks first of all.... I have specified 
"inverse" = true in the parent object "zInventory":
Code:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
<hibernate-mapping xmlns="urn:nhibernate-mapping-2.0">
   <class name="warehouse.to.zInventory, WarehouseLib" table="zInventory">
   
      <id name="Inv_ID" column="inv_id" type="Int32" unsaved-value="0" > 
         <generator class="identity" /> 
      </id> 
      
      ... bunch of properties...
      
      <set name="Swatches" inverse="true" cascade="all" table="inv_swatches" lazy="false">
         <key column="inv_id"/>
         <one-to-many class="warehouse.to.inv_swatches, WarehouseLib"/>
      </set>
      
      
   </class>
</hibernate-mapping>
For my child object "Swatch":
Code:
Public Class inv_swatches
...
             Public Property ParentInventoryMaster() As warehouse.to.zInventory
      ... getter and setter...
      End Property
... 
End Class
However, in my parent class, I have:
Code:
Public Class zInventory
 ... 
Public Property Swatches() As Collections.ISet
         ... getters and setters...
      End Property
 ...
End Class
Is this wrong then? What I did is:
(1). Get children from parent class   
AND(2). Get parent from child class
I have this feeling from what you said you can ONLY do...    
(1) if you specified 
inverse=false    OR    (2) if you specified 
inverse=trueFor your information, my child class mapping file:
Code:
<hibernate-mapping xmlns="urn:nhibernate-mapping-2.0">
   <class name="warehouse.to.inv_swatches, WarehouseLib" table="inv_swatches">
      <id name="SwatchID" column="swatch_id" type="Int32" unsaved-value="0" >
         <generator class="identity" /> 
      </id>
      
      <many-to-one name="ParentInventoryMaster" column="inv_id" class="warehouse.to.zInventory, WarehouseLib" not-null="true" />
      
      ... other stuff ...
      
   </class>
</hibernate-mapping>
Is this the reason why I keep getting 
"Row not found" on updates/deletes (as noted in my other post... 
http://nhibernate.sourceforge.net/forum ... .php?t=644 )
Help!