I have sketched out the relationship details below.  A volunteer has a collection of Opportunities.  Being associated with this table means that they have volunteered for a position at an event.
When I remove the Opportunity from the Volunteers collection, Hibernate tries to delete the entire Opportunity row.  Instead, I want Hibernate to set the "volunteer_id" column to NULL.  How can this be done?  I have put my current associations below.
Many thanks,
Joshua
Code:
               Volunteer
                   | 1
                   |
                   |
                  \|/ M                     
Event  1--->M  Opportunity  M<--->M  Position
OPPORTUNITY
-----------------------
id
version
event_id
volunteer_id
position_id
Code:
    /**
     * This mapping appears in the Volunteer class
     * @hibernate.set name="opportunities" inverse="false" lazy="false" cascade="save-update"
     * @hibernate.collection-key column="volunteer_id"
     * @hibernate.collection-one-to-many class="Opportunity"
     */
    /**
     * This mapping apprears in the Opportunity class
     * @hibernate.many-to-one name="volunteer" column="volunteer_id" class="Volunteer" not-null="false"  lazy="false" inverse="true"
     * @return Volunteer
     */