@Entity
@Table(name="COLLEGE")
public class College implements Serializable{
    @Id
    @GeneratedValue(strategy=GenerationType.IDENTITY)
    @Column(name="COLLEGE_XID")
    private Long collegeId;

    @Column(name="COLLEGE_NAME")
    private String collegeName;

    @OneToMany(mappedBy="college",cascade = CascadeType.ALL)
    private List<Student> studentList = new ArrayList<Student>();
    //... with get and setters
}

@Entity
@Table(name = "STUDENT")
public class Student implements Serializable    {
    @Id
    @GeneratedValue(strategy=GenerationType.IDENTITY)
    @Column(name="STUDENT_XID")
    private Long studentId;

    @Column(name="STUDENT_NAME")
    private String studentName;

    @ManyToOne
    @JoinColumn(name="COLLEGE_XID",nullable=false)
    private College college;
    //... with get and setters
}

College college1 = new BdCollege();
    college1.setCollegeName("C_1");

    College college2 = new BdCollege();
    college2.setCollegeName("C_2");

    Student student1 = new BdStudent();
    student1.setStudentName("S_1_C_2");

    CollegeDAO collegeDAO = new  CollegeDAO();

    // setting student 1 Parent to College 1       
    student1.setCollege(college1);   // <---- Here the Issue  ... student 1 as college 1 child

    // BUT assigning Student 1 as Child of Collge 2 in List
    // i did it purposely to test the behaviour
    college2.getStudentList().add(student1);  // <---- Here the Issue ... but assigning it in the list of College 2 ... ws expecting Exception

     // Saved College 1 & 2
     collegeDAO.save(college1);
     collegeDAO.save(college2);

      // Saved Successfully BUT

COLLEGE_XID     COLLEGE_NAME   
--------------  ---------------
1               C_1             
2               C_2

STUDENT_XID     STUDENT_NAME     COLLEGE_XID   
--------------  ---------------  --------------
1               S_1_C_2          1